WHO DOES SHE THINK SHE IS?

 
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What really happens when you put yourself out there…

I was chatting with a team member last week about 'putting yourself out there' - and specifically what happens when you do...

If you follow me on Instagram, you may have noticed I posted an image of myself last week, plus a few sentences asking people to join my newsletter.

Here's the thing though... I felt totally out of my comfort zone! There I was posting a photo of myself AND asking people to sign up for my list? Gasp!

I think a lot of us feel this way.

You think, who am I to post photos of myself and offer insights on _________ topic.

(If this isn't you, feel free to skip to the bottom of this email where I reveal the outcome + measurable results from the IG posting.)

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TWO things you should know

If you're feeling apprehensive posting about yourself remember:

  1. People want see you, so they feel like they know you, when deciding if you're the right person to get them from problem to solution.

  2. Contrary to what you may be thinking, when people see photos of you, they aren't thinking, "Who does she think she is..." Instead they're feeling like they're getting to know you better!

In this digital world, a headshot hidden on your website's about page isn't going to make anyone feel like they know, like and trust you.

But a well thought out visual personal brand will attract the right people and repel the wrong ones. (Good Riddance!!)

So what happened with the social media post of myself + text?

Well, my daily average newsletter sign-up rate increased by approx. 200% every day for 4 days after the post. Pretty good!

If you're nervous about putting yourself out there - listen I'm right there with you.

You can start with less intense professional style photos. For example, you could be looking away from the camera. Or you could be interacting with the product you design or create.

Be courageous - every little bit counts!

You've got this, I have faith in you!

Let me know me know in the comments what you’re going to do to put yourself out there. Scroll down!

P.S. Shhhh.... I'm excited to announce my new website will be launching soon! (It matches my studio and office.)

What’s new

This redesigned website will be stocked with both new + current products and resources including:

  • The much requested "Personal Branding Photo Shoot Planner" now in Photoshop TEMPLATE format, so you can customize it and send it out to your clients!

  • Motivating business audio trainings

  • Downloadable stock photos for your social media

  • Courses

  • Updated Blogs (including the last 3 months of newsletter topics)

As an HD insider, you'll be the first to know about any updates and promos.

Wishing you a fulfilling and productive week!

Warmly,

 
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The Fear Project

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Have you done anything recently that’s way out of your comfort zone?

I have!  I’ll tell you more about that soon… stay tuned…

First…

According to Angela Ceberano, after you do something out of your comfort zone, two things happen in your life:

  1. You experience increased happiness

  2. You experience decreased anxiety

In her Tedx Talk “Be a Warrior not a Worrier”, she suggests we all create a personal “Fear Project”.

So that’s just what I did.

My fear - is being in front of the camera + public speaking.

Most photographers (at least the ones I’ve spoken to) generally prefer to be behind the camera. (Go figure!)

So what did I do?

Aside from taking photos, I love helping others elevate their businesses. Whether it’s helping my personal branding clients or helping other photographers.

About a year ago, I created an online video program to help other photographers easily create a successful wedding photography business.

Because as any photography entrepreneur knows - taking amazing photos and running a business are two separate things. And knowing both is a must for longevity.

The biggest feedback I received from my students was they loved the course and they were able to see big results in their businesses. BUT... they wish they would have seen more of me.

Why didn’t you see me in more of the videos?

For the same reasons I hear my clients tell me… They don’t like having their photo taken or they hate seeing themselves in video. This is something I coach my photography clients through. Coaching that gives them the courage and confidence to get in front of my camera.

So I took my own advice.

I told that little, critical voice in my head, that regardless of what she says, I'm going to do it anyway. And I’m going to do my best - whatever that will look like.

Together, with my awesome assistant Kelly, I got super prepared with everything I could think of - from my message, to the lighting, to camera angles and sound.

What I created is an online free 3-part webinar series for wedding photographers wanting to start a photography business or wanting to level-up their current wedding photography businesses.

Next Week

The free webinar will be released next week.

We're still working out ideas for the title, but as of right now it looks something like this:

Confessions of a Wedding Photographer:  Free Wedding Photography Business Webinar.

This FREE Webinar will reveal:

  1. My Story - How I Started my Dream Business

  2. Best Tip Ever: How to Use Your About Page to Book More Clients

  3. The Business Behind My Photography: Your Top 10 Questions Answered

What do you think of the title? Write your feedback or suggestions in the comments below.

 
Preview screenshot from the free 3-part video training series.

Preview screenshot from the free 3-part video training series.

 

Now to you

Is there something you've been putting off or avoiding because of fear? If you started your own Fear Project, what would it be? Tell me in the comments below.

Thanks for sharing your time with me today!

With love and gratitude,

 
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